{"id":990,"date":"2021-08-21T16:54:57","date_gmt":"2021-08-21T16:54:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beaconlightacademy.edu.pk\/?p=990"},"modified":"2021-08-22T10:26:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-22T10:26:46","slug":"overcoming-fear-and-some-failure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.beaconlightacademy.edu.pk\/index.php\/2021\/08\/21\/overcoming-fear-and-some-failure\/","title":{"rendered":"Overcoming Fear, and Some Failure"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Take a moment and imagine, what would your life look like if you had no fear. What would you<br>do if you knew you\u2019re perfect in every way. Would you ever believe that fears exist? It\u2019s not that<br>difficult to imagine, it will alter your life initially.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I believe that fear plays a vital role in our lives. It is an obstacle that holds people back from<br>chasing their dreams or fulfilling their wishes wholeheartedly. A fear stops thousands of people<br>from becoming the new and the best version of themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a human, I also, have many fears, but losing scares me the most. I have a fear<br>of losing the challenges and not having enough courage to accept my defeat. This fear is also<br>known as \u201catychiphobia\u201d which is not just a matter of time but the failure brings up a huge<br>impact on our minds and in our lives. The fear of failing is absolutely immobilizing. The fact is<br>we all have some different definitions of defeat or failure because we all have different<br>goals, benchmarks and beliefs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every person at least once in their life, experience the worst of being failed but we all, however,<br>have to accept the defeat because it\u2019s almost impossible to go through life without getting into<br>difficult situations or experiencing failure. Taking that situation positively and having<br>faith in Allah can only help you get out of that problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s one wonderful thing about failure: it entirely depends on how we deal with it.<br>Whenever I\u2019m defeated or I fail to reach up to the benchmark I set, I feel like losing control of<br>myself but, the only thing that pushes me up is my faith in Allah. And I choose to look for the<br>reason I\u2019m meant to learn. I keep learning how to get rid of the same mistakes that I do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The reality is, most of us will stumble, shiver, and fall in life. Doors will get slammed on our faces,<br>we\u2019ll get insulted, and then we might make some bad decisions that might lead us to \u201cnot so<br>good path\u201d but imagine if Richard Branson had listened to all those people who told him that<br>he would never do anything worthwhile, he would never have been an owner of the virgin<br>empire, the high school dropout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s important to realize that for every task we perform, there\u2019s always a chance that we\u2019ll get fail<br>but facing that chance and embracing it, it\u2019s not less than a courageous thing itself. 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